Relaxation is an excellent way of relieving stress, pain and anxiety. I am sure, just like me you come across at least of those quite often. But relaxation should not be used simply as a way of relieving those negative feelings, in fact it plays an important role in having a healthy lifestyle. I created my own little routine that I intend to do at least once a week. Relaxing my mind and my body helps me to reduce negative feelings, stress and anxiety but it also helps to keep me focus and it obviously makes me more relax.
The very first step would be to make yourself comfortable; perhaps have a hot shower and put on some comfy clothes. You might also want to find a comfortable spot and start relaxing your muscles. Light up a candle, grab your blanket, basically anything that can help you relaxing is good.
Preparing some snacks is always a good idea. You might start feeling a little hungry at a certain point and having a snack right in front of you will require less thinking and less effort. My advice would be to keep it simple and healthy. Eating healthily has such an important role here; it contributes to the good functioning of the nervous system and the production of energy. As it is getting cold here, in Australia I like to have a warm drink together with my snacks. I usually go for a detox tea with some fruits.
My relaxation would not be effective if I am being disturbed every two minutes with a Facebook notification or a message. This is the reason why I like to switch of my phone or put it on airplane mode for about an hour and I also like to switch off the wifi on my computer. Yes you can still live without your phone don't worry!
If you are feeling a little bit more tense or want to go into a deeper relaxation, it would be a good idea to do some meditation. If you have no idea of how do we do that; relax, don't worry about it! Simply start my taking some deep breaths in through the nose and then breath out through the mouth while closing your eyes.
My favourite thing to do when I am feeling tenser is some simple yoga poses. It feels so good to have a good stretch.
I will finish this endless post by saying that you should spent some time doing whatever you enjoy doing! It does not matter what that activity is, once you like it. It can literally be anything from baking to walking your dog. Relax and try to appreciate this moment, it is a moment for yourself.
I spent my afternoon drinking tea and eating some fruits while listening to music. I burned a gorgeous dusk candle which had the most amazing and relaxing sent. I then grabbed my book and immersed myself into the story.